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숙녀의 예절과 바른예절 소개서.The Ladies' Book of Etiquette,and Manual of Politeness,by Florence Hartley
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Title: The Ladies' Book of Etiquette, and Manual of Politeness
A Complete Hand Book for the Use of the Lady in Polite Society
Author: Florence Hartley

A COMPLETE HAND BOOK FOR THE USE OF THE LADY IN POLITE SOCIETY.
CONTAINING
FULL DIRECTIONS FOR CORRECT MANNERS, DRESS, DEPORTMENT, AND
CONVERSATION;
RULES FOR THE DUTIES OF BOTH HOSTESS AND GUEST
IN MORNING RECEPTIONS, DINNER COMPANIES, VISITING, EVENING
PARTIES AND BALLS; A COMPLETE GUIDE FOR LETTER
WRITING AND CARDS OF COMPLIMENT; HINTS
ON MANAGING SERVANTS, ON THE PRESERVATION
OF HEALTH, AND ON ACCOMPLISHMENTS.
AND ALSO
USEFUL RECEIPTS FOR THE COMPLEXION, HAIR, AND WITH HINTS
AND DIRECTIONS FOR THE CARE OF THE WARDROBE.
BY
FLORENCE HARTLEY,
AUTHOR OF THE "LADIES' HAND BOOK OF FANCY AND ORNAMENTAL WORK."
BOSTON:
G. W. COTTRELL, PUBLISHER,
36 CORNHILL.
Entered according to the Act of Congress, in the year 1860, by
G . G . EVA N S,
in the Clerk's Office of the District Court for the Eastern District of
Pennsylvania.

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숙녀의 예절과 바른예절 소개서.The Ladies' Book of Etiquette,and Manual of Politeness,by Florence Hartley
CONTENTS.
CHAPTER I.
PAGE
CONVERSATION 11
CHAPTER II.
DRESS 21
CHAPTER III.
TRAVELING 34
CHAPTER IV.
HOW TO BEHAVE AT A HOTEL 40
CHAPTER V.
EVENING PARTIES―Etiquette for the Hostess 44
CHAPTER VI.
EVENING PARTIES―Etiquette for the Guest 54
CHAPTER VII.
VISITING―Etiquette for the Hostess 60
CHAPTER VIII.
VISITING―Etiquette for the Guest 66
[ 8] CHAPTER IX.
MORNING RECEPTIONS OR CALLS―Etiquette for the Hostess 76
CHAPTER X.
MORNING RECEPTIONS OR CALLS―Etiquette for the Caller 81
CHAPTER XI.
DINNER COMPANY―Etiquette for the Hostess 87
CHAPTER XII.
DINNER COMPANY―Etiquette for the Guest 97
CHAPTER XIII.
TABLE ETIQUETTE 105
CHAPTER XIV.
CONDUCT IN THE STREET 109
CHAPTER XV.
LETTER WRITING 116
CHAPTER XVI.
POLITE DEPORTMENT AND GOOD HABITS 142
CHAPTER XVII.
CONDUCT IN CHURCH 154
CHAPTER XVIII.
BALL ROOM ETIQUETTE―For the Hostess 158
CHAPTER XIX.
BALL ROOM ETIQUETTE―For the Guest 166
CHAPTER XX.
PLACES OF AMUSEMENT 172
[ 9] CHAPTER XXI.
ACCOMPLISHMENTS 178
CHAPTER XXII.
SERVANTS 232
CHAPTER XXIII.
ON A YOUNG LADY'S CONDUCT WHEN CONTEMPLATING MARRIAGE 244
CHAPTER XXIV.
BRIDAL ETIQUETTE 259
CHAPTER XXV.
HINTS ON HEALTH 264
CHAPTER XXVI.
MISCELLANEOUS 283
RECEIPTS.
FOR THE COMPLEXION, &C. 303

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숙녀의 예절과 바른예절 소개서.The Ladies' Book of Etiquette,and Manual of Politeness,by Florence Hartley
사회생활의 각 분야에서 즉 대화 드레스 파티 호텔에서 디너에서 편지쓰기에서 등등 여성의 예절에 대해서 쓴책자임.
Title: The Ladies' Book of Etiquette, and Manual of Politeness
A Complete Hand Book for the Use of the Lady in Polite Society
Author: Florence Hartley

A COMPLETE HAND BOOK FOR THE USE OF THE LADY IN POLITE SOCIETY.
CONTAINING
FULL DIRECTIONS FOR CORRECT MANNERS, DRESS, DEPORTMENT, AND
CONVERSATION;
RULES FOR THE DUTIES OF BOTH HOSTESS AND GUEST
IN MORNING RECEPTIONS, DINNER COMPANIES, VISITING, EVENING
PARTIES AND BALLS; A COMPLETE GUIDE FOR LETTER
WRITING AND CARDS OF COMPLIMENT; HINTS
ON MANAGING SERVANTS, ON THE PRESERVATION
OF HEALTH, AND ON ACCOMPLISHMENTS.
AND ALSO
USEFUL RECEIPTS FOR THE COMPLEXION, HAIR, AND WITH HINTS
AND DIRECTIONS FOR THE CARE OF THE WARDROBE.
BY
FLORENCE HARTLEY,
AUTHOR OF THE "LADIES' HAND BOOK OF FANCY AND ORNAMENTAL WORK."
BOSTON:
G. W. COTTRELL, PUBLISHER,
36 CORNHILL.
Entered according to the Act of Congress, in the year 1860, by
G . G . EVA N S,
in the Clerk's Office of the District Court for the Eastern District of
Pennsylvania.

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숙녀의 예절과 바른예절 소개서.The Ladies' Book of Etiquette,and Manual of Politeness,by Florence Hartley
INTRODUCTION.
In preparing a book of etiquette for ladies, I would lay down as the first rule, "Do
unto others as you would others should do to you." You can never be rude if you
bear the rule always in mind, for what lady likes to be treated rudely? True
Christian politeness will always be the result of an unselfish regard for the feelings
of others, and though you may err in the ceremonious points of etiquette, you
will never be impolite.
Politeness, founded upon such a rule, becomes the expression, in graceful
manner, of social virtues. The spirit of politeness consists in a certain attention
to forms and ceremonies, which are meant both to please others and ourselves,
and to make others pleased with us; a still clearer definition may be given by
saying that politeness is goodness of heart put into daily practice; there can be
no true politeness without kindness, purity, singleness of heart, and sensibility.
Many believe that politeness is but a mask worn in the world to conceal bad
passions and impulses, and to make a show of possessing virtues not really
existing in the heart; thus, that politeness is merely hypocrisy and dissimulation.
Do not believe this; be certain that those who profess such a doctrine are
practising themselves the deceit they condemn so much. Such people scout
politeness, because, to be truly a lady, one[ 4] must carry the principles into
every circumstance of life, into the family circle, the most intimate friendship, and
never forget to extend the gentle courtesies of life to every one. This they find
too much trouble, and so deride the idea of being polite and call it deceitfulness.
True politeness is the language of a good heart, and those possessing that heart
will never, under any circumstances, be rude. They may not enter a crowded
saloon gracefully; they may be entirely ignorant of the forms of good society;
they may be awkward at table, ungrammatical in speech; but they will never be
heard speaking so as to wound the feelings of another; they will never be seen
making others uncomfortable by seeking solely for their own personal
convenience; they will always endeavor to set every one around them at ease;
they will be self- sacrificing, friendly, unselfish; truly in word and deed, polite.
Give to such a woman the knowledge of the forms and customs of society, teach
her how best to show the gentle courtesies of life, and you have a lady, created
by God, only indebted for the outward polish to the world.

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